There is a difference between neurodiversity and neurodivergent:

Neurodiverse is about a group of people, we are all different from each other. A single person is not neurodiverse, though neurodivergent people do refer to themselves as neurodiverse.

Neurodivegent refers to people who have a brain that works significantly differentle to the norm, conditions such as autism, ADHD, tourettes and dyslexia. Neurodivergent people often have one or more co-existing neurodivergent condition.

Neurotypical describes people whose brain function are seen to be standard.

So although no two brains are quite the same, statements such as, “we are all a little autistic,” are down to a confusion between neurodivergent and neurodiverse, they are not the same. Also many autistics find that term abusive.

Different Christs for different cultures? Why not? Jesus was not a blond haired blue eyed nortern European, though the great majority of the pictures and statues of Jesus are portrrayed that way, although there are black African and Chinese images too. I’m OK with all of them. The incarnation of Jesus Christ means that God became a human being just like us, which is what European artists portrayed, Jesus is like you. When that white Jesus image was exported into other cultures it can damage that culture. Western missionaries have done harm as well as good. If we can have a Jesus like us, they can have a Jesus like them. Jesus can be incarnate in all cultures.

Some decades ago, yes, I’m old, the leadership of the church including the small group leaders and PCC members did the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) test. We followed this up by a shorter unit on prayer by type. I haven’t the space to go into it here, but it shows how different styles of prayer suit different people, and that different styles of Bible Study are forms of prayer.

The MBTI and prayer session we concentrated mainly on how we speak to God, and that we speak to God differently, but how does God speak to us?

The simple answer, and I know this is a cop-out, is that God speaks to different people in different ways. Jesus adapts himself to each neurotypical person, so there is no reason why he wouldn’t adapt himself to our neurology. Autistics are not broken neurotypicals we are as fearfully and wonderfully made as anyone else. (So are other neurodivergent people.) Autism is a gift from God. I always learn from being with autistics, even those who are poor at communicating in a neurotypical way. I learn nothing from those with set ideas of what autism is.

The complicated answer is your own, it is for you to find out for yourself.