Autism and Meltdown. 5 Pillars to be aware of

I have autism. My brain is wired differently to most people. I want to blog about my problems dealing with the world. (Please, other Autistic people, if any of this is myth, legend or just-plain-wrong please let me know. I have no psychological qualifications, I'm just an autistic person sharing his thoughts.) Sensory Occasionally this …

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Technological problems, but who noticed?

Compelling Spirit Holy Trinity Church, Huddersfield, Sunday 8th September 2019 Guided by God: 2 This was a two bottle service. I was playing percussion in the worship band at the second contemporary service and the church was warm. It was bright and sunny and the heating was on. Two sports bottles of water are required …

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Invalidation: 9 ways of belittling people

Judgmental ways of communicating   Ordering you to feel differently Get over it Don't be so sensitive Ordering you to "look" differently Don't look so serious Don't look so proud of yourself Denying your perception, Defending You've got it all wrong But of course I respect you Trying to make you feel guilty while invalidating …

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